Depression in Poor
The women keeps on working for the whole day and she gets no attention in any matter. when she comes home there is a bundle of chores to be done and again she gets busy doing that. she gets totally tired up , goes to wash utensils at other peoples home and comes home exhausted and having lots and lots of mental pressure and torture. when a child is born she gets only few days and again she has to come back on her daily routine again. According to a survey made, till one year, a mother should breastfed her child but in the case of this women they do so jut about 3 to 4 months and now you can imagine the mental growth of such children.
they have to do work in order to run their livelihood and in order to survive in this costy era, so they don’t have any other option other than this. They are deprived of their basic rights and also under go lots and lots of mental torture and anxiety.
The most critical time in a womens life is the period of manopause. Here , the lady sometimed looses the mental balance and has a severe sign of depression. A test conducted on 300 such ladies showed that on taking the drug pristiq , many have shown a considerable good performance and have shown less stess during such critical periods.
Many a times , it is found that depression also causes the one , infected with it to loose the sense of smell, that person can not recognize different smells and looses his insight on it. The main reason for this is that this stress , so called depression directly affects the region of the mind called smelling area and reduces its efficiency to smell things in a good way. This example shows that depression is so stress ful and it should be removed from your life. You just have to be positive in whatever you do and have to think with a good sense of humour which relieves you and your mind. Leave every thing that lead you to stress. This is not just a joke. You have to practice this from eithin for a test , see how good you feel and how fantastically life changes for you. Have a humorous attitude of let go. Don’t create burden of the things that you don’t have control of, let people think in their own eay and you continue to think in your own.
But in most of the cases , we think that only women are the victims of such things. There is a wide spread image that men are strong and can naver have stress in their lives. They can control women , any worst situation and any thing that comes across theil way, but this is not the case. We all need to open our eyes and take a look at the other side of the coin. Men, when subjected to mental torture generally neglects telling to others because of the status they are having in the society. They can also be subjected to abuses whether they are physica – means slapping , injury or even forced sex. It can also be mental such as speaking bad words and torturing with lots and lots of warning. In all this cases ,a men suffers from lots and lots of stress which is three times than a common man. This thing continously kills them and they are not able to handle this as they can not even share all this things with others nor can solve it themselves.
But a very interesting thing has shown us that when a man suffers from such kind of abuse then he does not stays with his abuser. as he is man , so called , the bravo , he will definitely find some way to escape from his abusers and enjoy or live life in his own way and be at a comfortable mental piece state. Where as, in case of women they have to still stay with the abuser , in most cases , his husband himself , as she is economically dependent on her. In our society , a woman living alone is seen with a very different angle , almost not fine. A man can do any thing as he is considered to be the one who runs the home which is not the case in 40 % of the houses. Generally , they spend all their money earned in playing card or drinking habits. A woman goes to do house hold chores in the vicinity and earn the money necessary for their children, because of this , generally their child are deprived of a good study and then , they too , become a part of the same custom. Even after earning so much , they are subjected to mental and domestic violence and hence , are under a great mental pressure. They have regret that they are not able to take care of their children but finally they are left with no choice and the amount of depression goes on increasing day by day.
This kind of violence is generally seen in poor people , why generally , off course it is seen in poor people only !! in poor families , woman are not educated and hence they are not aware about the rights that they possess. They earn money in almost 70% of the cases and even though they are not able to raise their voice against such non violence and this much mental torture. So, it is said that you educate the women so that they have the basic idea of their rights and rules. They must be made aware about the sex knowledge so that other time , they are not exploited by any person. Even small girls should be given knowledge of sex and how to protect themselves by it. Ladies should also be given knowledge that how they can be or can lessen their stress during menopause in order to take better care of their parents , their child and other family members. The most finest and sharpest weapon we are having is education, use it wisely!!
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